Wale wrote to gistwithgarule about his present stage and needs advice on what to do. Let’s read his story and share our thought/advice.

I travelled to Russia to study medicine at the age of 23 years when I meet a very beautiful Russian girl named Yulia, She was 17 turning 18.

I loved this girl with all my heart and she was so in love with me. In fact, she loved me too much. I was her first black boyfriend, we dated for 2 years and then we broke up because I needed some space.
We still became very close friends after the breakup until she got a new boyfriend.
She called me crying and telling me that she has not loved any guy in this life more than myself but she doesn’t know what to do about this rich guy who wants her. I told her to go ahead, that if he can give her the life she always dreamed of living.

She clearly wants this guy because of his money. This new boyfriend is very rich and I wasn’t financially buoyant then.
Her boyfriend knows I’m her ex, so he forced her to block me everywhere. For the past 3 years, we haven’t communicated.

I moved on as nothing happened
Now I’m back in Nigeria, It’s been 3 years now
But here is the problem
No matter how hard I try to forget her, It doesn’t work
I still get flashbacks of our love, romance and all the good times we had.
No matter how hard I try, I just can’t forget her.

I got into a new relationship which ended shortly because the girl I was dating said I was still in love with my ex. That I talk about my ex more than I talk about her. And it’s true, I unknowingly bring up my ex in our discussion.
How do I get over my ex of 3 years?
I sometimes cry at night thinking about her
It’s so weird, I have never had this kind of bond with a girl.

How can I remove her from my mind?
It’s like I’m spiritually tied to this girl

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